7 WAYS TO SPICE YOUR SEX LIFE

TRYING TO SPICE IT UP A LITTLE? Try One Or All Of The Following

• TALK ABOUT SEX.

It would amaze you that some couples don't talk about sex at all. Sex is almost like a taboo subject that most couples are not free to discuss. If you want to spice up your sex life then you have to discuss it. Talk about the penis, vagina, clitoris, sex positions, what you or don't like, what you will want to try. Talk about virtually everything about sex anytime you feel like. The more freely you talk about sex, the better and easier sex becomes for you. 

• TRY AN EXOTIC SEX POSITION

Try sitting in a beginner's tantric sex position called the 'yabby yum'. The man sits in a loose cross-legged position and the woman sits on his laps facing him, her legs straddling him.wrap your arms around each other or place a hand on each other's heart and breathe with your faces close together, feeling each others breath on your face.
while this position in itself doesn't guarantee an explosive ending, it is intimate and gets things moving in the right direction.

• CREATE ANTICIPATION

Try giving each other a massage, without the pressure that it will end with you having sex. Just a scalp massage or foot massage can be tremendously relaxing, as can a really gentle stroking of the whole body with your fingertips. 

• TRY TAKING VIAGRA OR ITS ALTERNATIVE

It can't make you more aroused. if you are 'randy', it makes your erection last longer, but it can't make you feel sexually attracted to someone if you aren't already.

• WATCH PORN TOGETHER

Porn has some disadvantages because they often create a false impression on the people who are watching them. For instance, many people don't know that the male performers are well selected because of the big size of their penis as well as their stamina. They are not average people, they are professionals who are putting up an act for which they are paid. Besides the films are edited. A man may have sex with the same person on two or three different occasions and it may be edited to look like one round of sex that lasts several hours.     Notwithstanding, porn can help your love life especially if you go for the mature ones with the intention to educate rather than to entertain. watching them together can be a big turn on and a prelude to great sex especially when you watch with an eye for realism and not trying ti imitate the characters in every move they make. 







• ASK FOR TURN-ONS




Each and every one of us has what turns us on, there is one special thing that makes you go crazy in bed. You may not know what turns your partner on because he or she may not have told you. Why don't you ask your partner tonight? Ask your partner what turns him or her on and do exactly that. It might be a turn off for you but in matters like this, it is give and take. This will no doubt move your sex life forward.




• MEND YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND COMMUNICATION FENCES FIRST




If you are arguing, not in good terms with each other or not liking each other very much now, these suggestions will not help. Rather than be arousing they probably will be more annoying. so work on your relationship first.

THINGS EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT BREASTS

BREAST HANDLING

BOOBIES, TATAS, JUGS, MELONS, BUBBIES, ORANGES, ..THESE ARE SO MANY NICKNAMES THAT MEN USE IN REFFERING TO BREASTS.

Men love breast but they are very ignorant when it comes to breasts and handling breasts and they end up hurting their women physically due to to the careless way they handle their breasts.

If you are a man reading this, here are the things we feel you must know about our breasts;

• If you keep sucking in a constant motion like a baby, we get creeped out and might consider giving you a bottle to suck on next time. switch up your moves man, throw in a lick or a hand!

• You can go down on me for hours but if you don't touch my boobs I won't be satisfied.

• Breast is not a personality trait, please don't list them as one of the reasons you like me even if they are spectacular.

• You can keep your head on my 'natural pillows' but if you elbow it or keep an inanimate object on it I will wonder if you respect me.

• Forget you ever learnt that word 'saggy'!

• Do not make fun of any woman's tits in my presence.  Don't pull or push too much, try a nice massage....hmmmmm...yes yes..that's better.

• Our boobs might be soo tempting and inviting to play with but please, focus on the nipples.  

• If our nipples aren't hard, what you are doing isn't working! sounds familiar?

• There may be the time our cleavages needs lubrication *winks*winks*winks* please never directly spit on them!.yuck (too close to the face).

• Bras are never really comfortable, even those ugly ones!

EJACULATORY DISORDERS IN MEN; WHY SOME MEN EXPERIENCE PREMATURE AND IRREGULAR EJACULATION.

Some men ejaculate too soon while some can't ejaculate. Both of these categories of men are experiencing ejaculatory disorders.

  But why?..  And how do you fix ejaculatory disorder problems? Before answering these questions, lets first of all consider the various ejaculatory disorders.

There Are Four Basic Categories Of Men With Ejaculatory Disorders.

•  The first sets ejaculates before their penis gets hard and that means that they ejaculate even before they have an erection. such a man is incapable of bedroom success, everything is over before it gets started.

This set ejaculate immediately they have an erection. Things are as well over  here soon because there is no penetration. with them, ejaculation is immediate once the penis is hard.

• This group ejaculates seconds after the penis enters the vagina. Here penetration does occur but its over too soon and can be very very unpleasant for the woman, leaves her disappointed. 

• This group actually performs well in bed and ejaculates normally  but there is a problem with them. They cant reach orgasm. The ejaculation is there but no gratification. The womenfolk may find this confusing but men with this problem get no physical satisfaction or joy from sex.

• And then the group that finds it hard to ejaculate or does';t ejaculate at all. these group of men lasts longer in bed, wears their partner out and yet couldn't ejaculate.

Reasons For Ejaculatory disorders In Men.

• Primarily, ejaculatory disorders are psychological in nature. 'Something ain't functioning well upstairs', to put it in  lay mans language.

•  Some men who have this problems are mostly suffering from lack of self confidence, depression or have emotional problems. etc.

•  When a man is worried that he might come too early and disappoint his partner and himself, it can cause him to loose erection or not have an erection at all. it can even cause him to ejaculate without reaching orgasm.

Solutions For Getting Rid Of Ejaculatory Disorders.

     To find out the actual cause of the problem that triggered off ejaculatory disorders is not a journey one can embark on by himself. the assistance of a psychotherapist or other sexual clinicians/therapists are needed. The cause can range from complex to simple issues like the fear of ejaculation itself.

If it is a serious psychological conditions, it is only natural that an expert should b called upon to help. This can be a psychotherapist or a sexologist and the partner of the man plagued with the disorders must attend the sessions with him because the problem stems from the emotional difficulties in their relationship.

ADVANCED ORAL SEX TIPS FOR MEN; SEND YOUR WOMAN OVER THE EDGE WITH YOUR TONGUE.

ARE YOU READY TO GET YOUR TOTOLICKING DEGREE?

If you so much want to pleasure your woman with your tongue but never seems to get it right, then this is for you. After this article i believe you'll be an expert in totolicking, i fact, your woman might consider awarding you a postgraduate degree in cunnilingus the next time you handle her.

First Step

Have you ever watched a dog lick something or someone? Ever noticed how relaxed its jaw is and how soft d tongue is? Relax your jaw, leave your tongue soft (don't point it forward) and lick the outer edges of your partners vagina along both sides moving from her vagina opening to her clitoris. continue licking her softly from up to down up to down, don't go in with your tongue yet, just keep licking her to get her heart racing.

Second Step

   Then gently hold your partners labia together with your lips (not your teeth!) and then run your tongue inside the labia, one labia at a time.this is surely going to get her squirming.

Third Step

  Now insert your tongue slightly into her vaginal opening, try moving your tongue inside out as well as swirling your tongue round and round in her opening. This is called tonguing. Relax and put yourself in the act, tongue her real good avoiding any contact with the clitoris.

Fourth Step

Now it is time to give the clitoris the lavish attention it craves. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's anatomy. For most women, clitoral stimulation is the only way for them to reach orgasm. The picture below illustrates where you can find the clitoris better.

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• Slightly spread your partners vaginal lips with your fingers and flick your tongue around her clitoris for a little while, give it a quick little suck drawing it into your mouth and then letting it go. keep sucking on it gently ( *please please please and please, keep your teeth off. Think of the clitoris as tip of your of your penis, it wouldn't feel good to use teeth on them would it*?) and simultaneously rub your tongue on and around it to tantalize her nerve endings. Try using your tongue to trace the alphabet on it starting off gently and then increasing the pressure of your tongue until you develop a rhythm with the movement of her waist. Once your partner is in tune with you, don't stop for anything until you give her a mind-blowing orgasm. just because you are using your mouth doesn't mean you shouldn't get your hands involved too. So explore her body by massaging her buttocks rubbing her thighs or inserting a finger in 'there' while you perform. The extra stimulation could send her over the edges faster. 

SEXTING: USING "DIRTY" MESSAGES TO TURN YOUR WOMAN ON

Let me begin by explaining the word "sexting"... Sexting is sending erotic text msgs through your phone to somebody. By erotic text msgs i mean msgs and pictures with sexual undertone.
Sexting is a way to speak the language of a woman conveniently for you can do it from anywhere and at anytime. Sexting your lover takes very little effort and the results are astounding!

why women are easily seduced by sexting

Men are sexually aroused by what they see.For instance, show a man a picture of a topless woman or a picture or video of people having sex and he is instantly aroused. On the other hand a woman can't always look at a picture of a naked man and get turned on just like that. What is guaranteed to get a woman greatly aroused is what she hears!  That explains why men ranks higher in the search for raw pornographic pictures while women ranks higher in the search for good romance stories. To get effectively get a woman to thing about sex and nothing but sex you have to engage her brains with sweet words and music. That is why sexting is soo effective for women, it get their imaginations going. It loosens them up and gets them sloppy wet and so ready for you.

Using sensual languages 

With sexting you can get her horny with just a few push of the buttons no matter where you are or what you are doing! you can get your girl clawing at you once you walk through the door from the sexts you sent her during the day.

Break through her defence

Majority of the ladies enjoys the idea of being secretly naughty in the public especially  when they are supposed to be "decent", "proper" and "professional" so by sexting you break through her defenses hitting her at the center. imagine you both are at work and you sends her sensual msgs every now and then through the day, believe me you, by the time you both gets home she'll b soo wet and can't wait to take your hard dick!It is a very powerful and guaranteed way to put a woman in the mood for sex and the only important thing is to be creative because every woman is unique and also know the kind of sexts to send her in every occasions. She is your babe and only you know her better....(or don't you)?

Example of sexts you can send to your woman

• Hey bae, what are you wearing under your clothes?
• Hey hon, are you wet in the right places?
• Hmmm, bae i need to feel you?
• When i think of you bae, everything gets "harder"
• My hands feel empty without your breasts ,sugar.
• Hey, meet me at the door naked!
• Baby, i think you need a tongue bath..
• Nowhere i would rather be right now than inside you.

I hope you get the gist now? good luck sexting!