FOR MEN; HOW TO USE YOUR FINGERS TO SATISFY A WOMAN IN BED

  Stimulating your woman’s private parts can become the most intimate and amazing experience for both of you. However, using your finger to please women can be quite a difficult task, especially if you do not have enough practice.

Treat her clitoris Gently

Probably the most common mistake men do when stimulating women’s clitoris is when they imitate their penis stimulation. When it comes to her clitoris, any harsh stimulation can spoil her pleasure.
First of all, explore her genitals, finding her clitoris, labia and vaginal opening. Do not start right with clitoral stimulation; give her some time to build up the anticipation. Besides, rubbing her in the wrong places can be annoying and ineffective.

Rub the tips of your fingers on her inner thighs, play with her pubic hairs, and gently touch her labia to make her anticipate pleasure. Tease her until she hints you by spreading her legs wider and pushing her thighs forward. Then you can start to gently rub her clitoris.

Avoid Monotony

Don’t focus your entire attention on her clitoris, at some point she may want your fingers in her pussy and then again on her clitoris- be receptive of the small clues she gives you. If your technique becomes predictable, it will sooner no longer bring her the pleasures she once experienced. So always change your styles. Don’t stick your finger inside her vagina right from the start for this can be painful and irritating for her as she might not yet be fully aroused and well lubricated.

Keep To A Rhythm

Often when a woman becomes very aroused, she wants her partner to keep the same rhythm and intensity, while the man may want to increase the speed. It is better to ask your partner what she really prefers. Continue your pace unless she asks you to make it harder or faster.

Explore Her G-Spot

G-spot simulations can bring her intense pleasures and she will greatly appreciate it if you use your fingers to stimulate her hidden spot. Shape your fingers in a “come hither” motion and insert them into her vagina with your palms facing up. You will feel a rough spongy area that is different from others and your woman can give you a clue if you find the right spot. Start sliding your fingers inside slowly and then apply some pleasure as the G-spot is usually responsive to such stimulation. The more aroused she becomes, the more pressure she needs you to apply.

Enhance Her Pleasure

There are many ways to make her feel multiple sensations and give the most powerful orgasmic pleasure. First of all, you may try to alternate your finger with your tongue or use both at a time; finger her while giving her oral sex. This may need some practice, but the results can be amazing. If you have already explored the backdoor area and she likes it, you may try double penetration with your fingers. One or two fingers in her vagina and the other in her anus but that is after you have applied some lube in her anus. She may want to go beyond the boundaries and take a whole fist, this should be done slowly with caution and please stop when she says you should for she might decide it is too much for her.



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