7 WAYS TO SPICE YOUR SEX LIFE

TRYING TO SPICE IT UP A LITTLE? Try One Or All Of The Following

• TALK ABOUT SEX.

It would amaze you that some couples don't talk about sex at all. Sex is almost like a taboo subject that most couples are not free to discuss. If you want to spice up your sex life then you have to discuss it. Talk about the penis, vagina, clitoris, sex positions, what you or don't like, what you will want to try. Talk about virtually everything about sex anytime you feel like. The more freely you talk about sex, the better and easier sex becomes for you. 

• TRY AN EXOTIC SEX POSITION

Try sitting in a beginner's tantric sex position called the 'yabby yum'. The man sits in a loose cross-legged position and the woman sits on his laps facing him, her legs straddling him.wrap your arms around each other or place a hand on each other's heart and breathe with your faces close together, feeling each others breath on your face.
while this position in itself doesn't guarantee an explosive ending, it is intimate and gets things moving in the right direction.

• CREATE ANTICIPATION

Try giving each other a massage, without the pressure that it will end with you having sex. Just a scalp massage or foot massage can be tremendously relaxing, as can a really gentle stroking of the whole body with your fingertips. 

• TRY TAKING VIAGRA OR ITS ALTERNATIVE

It can't make you more aroused. if you are 'randy', it makes your erection last longer, but it can't make you feel sexually attracted to someone if you aren't already.

• WATCH PORN TOGETHER

Porn has some disadvantages because they often create a false impression on the people who are watching them. For instance, many people don't know that the male performers are well selected because of the big size of their penis as well as their stamina. They are not average people, they are professionals who are putting up an act for which they are paid. Besides the films are edited. A man may have sex with the same person on two or three different occasions and it may be edited to look like one round of sex that lasts several hours.     Notwithstanding, porn can help your love life especially if you go for the mature ones with the intention to educate rather than to entertain. watching them together can be a big turn on and a prelude to great sex especially when you watch with an eye for realism and not trying ti imitate the characters in every move they make. 







• ASK FOR TURN-ONS




Each and every one of us has what turns us on, there is one special thing that makes you go crazy in bed. You may not know what turns your partner on because he or she may not have told you. Why don't you ask your partner tonight? Ask your partner what turns him or her on and do exactly that. It might be a turn off for you but in matters like this, it is give and take. This will no doubt move your sex life forward.




• MEND YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND COMMUNICATION FENCES FIRST




If you are arguing, not in good terms with each other or not liking each other very much now, these suggestions will not help. Rather than be arousing they probably will be more annoying. so work on your relationship first.