10 BIGGEST SEX MISTAKES MEN AND WOMEN MAKE

SEX...... IT IS NATURAL

DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT AND YOU ARE PROBABLY IN THE BALLPARK, RIGHT? WRONG!

MEN

• They jackhammer. Some men make the mistake of thinking that the harder and faster you fuck a woman, the better you are as a lover. But this is crude and unromantic.Most women don't like it that way. Pounding like an oil rig will only make your partner think you are using her for friction, and mess up her hair beyond repair. Yes, it looks like good 'action' sex on screen, but in real life you need to mix it up a little.

• They forget about the sensual in sexual. Food, dancing, music, massage...if you make your day more sensual, you'll end up having more sex in the long run. Eye contact and just plain old making out is imperative in keeping things hot.

• Some don't take time to romance a woman and put her in the mood. They just ring the bell and go in. There are many things a man ought to do before penetration. The clitoris is a small and highly sensitive piece of high tech equipment which a man can play with to turn a woman on. This 'man in the boat' for many is the key to a great orgasm, but just a few rough strokes won't do. You have to really give it enough gentle rubs and sucks.

• Another grave mistake by men is that they imitate movies for their moves.Rather than listen to their partners non-verbals. Feeding each other ice cream while blindfolded, throwing aside all the files on your desk in the heat of passion, sex acrobatics all look good to an audience, but your partner may just like the idea of being under the dark covers instead..'nice and simple'.

• They compare their old years-long romance to the new one as if they are equal. Hormonally, neurologically, our brains and bodies will react to them differently.. This is simply a case of apple and oranges and not apples and apples.

WOMEN

• They assume that nighttime is the best time is the best time to be intimate. Hormonally, women have an easier time of achieving an orgasm in the morning. Also by the time night falls, you both may be too tired from work. Try morning sex with the blinds closed on the weekends when you can sleep in.

• They use sex as a weapon. Withhold it to 'punish' your man and it becomes about power when it should be about intimacy.( It is almost impossible for a woman to cum when she is sad, angry or upset).

• They forget how things they ingest can ingest can affect sex. Alcohol, antidepressants, even a big plateful of pasta! This can slow you down and get in the way of the big O.
  

They compare themselves to other people and assume their neighbors, co workers or best friends are having better sex. These 'desperate housewives' mentality is never accurate, hey lady, let me tell you, you've got no idea what happens behind closed doors. Period!

• They wait for men to come to them for sex. Women want men who read their minds while men always want women who initiate, and be exact and spontaneous when they do. This makes way for a lot of waiting around and eventually leads to no or bad sex.

Does a couple of these sound familiar to you? Then it is time to make revisions! I hope after reading this you can now figure out how to tweak your love life in a better direction.

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