REVEALED; SOME WOMEN FAKE ORGASM

SURPRISED? DON'T BE.. NOT ALL THE 'ORGASMS ARE REAL.

The other day i was with some of my friends and we were discussing about ladies who fake orgasms. Amazingly, more than half of the ladies present admitted honestly that they had faked orgasm sat least once in the past.

from that discussion and similar once i had in the past on ladies night out, i deduced that many women are faking orgasms when they are having sex. It is an interesting part of human sexuality and i decided to talk about here.

  we all know that faking orgasms is like lying to your partner, and what are the consequences of such a lie?

  One of the reasons ladies fake orgasms is just to boost their partners self esteem. On one hand they feel sexier, claiming to reach the peak of pleasure and on the other hand they try to ensure their partners efforts were not useless. And while some acting can be good enough to keep your romance look good on the surface, the lies and other problems will sooner or later appear as a result of faking orgasms.

  The most common problem that can arise through faking orgasms is sexual dissatisfaction. Because you always lie about the orgasms, your partner will never know he ain't getting it right. He will never get to learn to satisfy you and do those things you secretly wished he would do. being convinced of his expertise in pleasing you, he will never be able to pleasure you better.

  The best way out of this situation is to tell your partner what you really wan't. help him find your pleasure spots. Always direct him on what to do and how to pleasure you.You may not say it in words but rather with your actions, guiding him with your hands and actions. Try to be responsive and always encourage him when you really appreciate what he is doing. Don't assume he knows or is supposed to know how to pleasure you. Every woman is different and so are their pleasure spots and turn-ons. Don't let him go on thinking what worked on his ex works on you too.. You'll only keep on suffering and snicking out to masturbate after every bout of sex. 

  also you should not expect to have orgasms every time you have sex,some times you may simply have pleasure without acting the earth shattering orgasms. You may tell your partner about the pleasure you had with him and he won't be bothered about dissatisfaction.

  Learn to enjoy the happy moments with your partner and don't focus on orgasms. If it happens-, it is just fine, if it doesn't and you like sex-, it is fine too.

  You are in charge of your pleasure and your partner helps you to get the new unforgettable experiences. If something goes wrong, give him some clues, always try something different and new. Changes are good for any sexual relationships as you both will be open to new sensations, your experiences will always be fresh whether you are always having orgasms or not.